24 de setembro de 2005

Compliments?

Question:
I agree that your "funny/cocky" routine works very
well and women are attracted to it. Yet, I have to
disagree with you on one aspect, women LOVE to be
complimented. They live for it. Why else, but to
get men's attention and be complimented, do they
spend hours getting ready, and buy all that sexy
clothing? Sure, their faces light up when you make
them laugh or they really have fun. But how many
times have you seen that special girl smile at you
and kiss you like there's no tomorrow when you
tell her she's the most incredible thing in the
world and that she's so beautiful you just can't
stop loving her? Probably never, because you think
that's a "wuss" thing to do. But you don't know
how wrong you are.

Answer:

THE IDEA THAT WOMEN LOVE TO BE COMPLIMENTED

Do women love to be complimented?

I think so.

In fact, I think that many really ATTRACTIVE
women FEED off of attention and compliments. The
more attention and compliments they get, the
better and more powerful they feel. It's an ego
boost.

BUT... and it's a BUTTTTT bigger than J-Lo's,
this doesn't mean that a woman will feel ATTRACTED

Attractive women get compliments in various
forms all the time. In fact, they're so used to
getting compliments, that's what they EXPECT.

As a matter of fact, if you start talking to an
attractive woman and say, "Wow, you're really
beautiful. I mean, you're like a goddess... are
you a model or an actress?” etc., the most LIKELY
response you're going to get is her giving you the
cold shoulder.

Why?

Because SHE GOT WHAT SHE NEEDED FROM YOU and
you showed her that you're JUST LIKE EVERY OTHER
guy out there that will worship her for her
physical beauty.

As a general rule, you ALWAYS want to avoid
being mentally slotted into the "average" and
"like all the other guys" category at ALL COST.

Now, I have started conversations by giving a
woman a compliment, but I NEVER let it become part
of the actual conversation. If anything, I begin
teasing and making fun of her looks as soon as
possible, if she's REALLY hot-looking. And I never
give the compliment in a way that says, "I'm
intimidated because you're obviously very powerful
and desirable."
to you if you give her compliments.

WOMEN SPEND ALL OF THE TIME AND ENERGY GETTING
READY, FIXING THEMSELVES UP, AND DRESSING SEXY TO
GET COMPLIMENTS

"Women don't dress up for men, they
dress up for each other."

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